The very structure of success in a white cis male dominated society necessitates that we deny our true desires, incessantly defer them. It necessitates a constant, hyper-masculine drive for dominance- the very thing radical queerness is trying to destroy- in order to attain even a barely adequate standard of living. 

Do we become failures in order to preserve a measure of autonomy? Or do we embrace success to live it?

by GenderFail